Last month, when Manny and the older boys were out hunting, Caleb asked to wash dishes, and I let him. He was so proud of himself, for the good job he did, that he requested to be added to the dish-washing rotation. No one objected, and he did a wonderful job…until the novelty wore off.
This last week he has had to re-due the job several times, as dirty dishes keep ending up in the drainer. After running new water, for the third time, yesterday, I gave him an ultimatum.
“Caleb, you are going to wash the dishes every day, until they are all clean in a timely manner. Every time you have more than three dirty dishes in the to re-wash, you will have the job again the next day.”
He sighed, and said, “Okay.” Blankly, he turned and began to walk away.
I called him back, and asked, “Caleb, what did I say to you?”
“That I have to wash dishes…” looking around sadly.
“Until when?” I prompted.
“Until I move out of the house,” he calmly answered.
“Until when?” I prompted, again.
“Until I am old enough to move out of the house, then I won’t have to wash dishes anymore.” He answered, a bit annoyed.
“Is that what I said?” I asked.
“No, you said I had to get them clean.” He replied, staring off into space.
We will see how long that takes…